MY THREE "H" AND ONE "F" RULE FOR LIFE

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Life is a one time deal.You don't get to live your life again.Some might bring in the concept of the seven lives here to prove their point of another life.Even if it is considered to be true it cannot be taken for granted.Since it is a one time phenomenon we need to give it the best shot.

Many advocate different ways of living.But the best way one could live is to conduct experiments on is life and find the hacks for a better life.

Here is my experiment.I would like to put forward "3H AND 1F" rule for spending our lives in a meaningful way.

Let me dive directly into the rule.

HAPPINESS 

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Happiness is highly underrated . People are so ambitious for higher earnings and they crave for materials that donot exist with us in our lives.But Happiness is never a goal for people.

My first H for life is happiness.Happiness should become a dream for every one.This might sound cliche but in reality if happiness is made our ambition for life all other things would easily flow into our lives.

One advice that I would give for eternal happiness is "DONOT FEAR JUDGEMENT,WELCOME THE POSITIVE JUDGEMENT AND HUMBLY REJECT THE NEGATIVEJUDGEMENT"

HUSTLE

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My second H for life is Hustle.I am a great fan of american entrepreneur GaryVee. He advocates the concept of hustle.Many people assume that hustling is working day in and day out.Let me tell you my version of hustle.

Hustle in my sense is adding value to your life every minute.But here the word Value might mislead you.Value is something which is an investment for your future.You need 

For example you got an hour of time to chill out with your friends,learn from the conversations with your friends,read their character,This adds value.

Let me shamefully borrow an idea from Atomic Habits by James clear "You are the compound intrest of your ideas"

HUMBLE

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Now coming to the third H for life-HUMBLE.I have listened to many successful people talking about their journey.Guess who they would attribute their success to?

They would give credits for the non existential word "LUCK".But they are aware of the fact that it was mostly their sheer hard work .So what is your take away?

We need to be humble.Being Humble is the trait that only successful people possess.A famous proverb sums all this "EMPTY VESSELS MAKE MUCH NOISE".

FOCUS

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The one F in the rule is focus.Focus on what you do.You might have seen motivational speakers saying this and you are bored listening to the same line since you were out of your mothers womb.

But think of focus in a wider perspective.Focus on every moment of your life consider if it is taking you towards your end goal.Try improving focus everyday in your life.


"BOTH THE WINNER AND THE LOSER SETS THE SAME GOALS,BUT WHY DO ONE REACH THE END GOAL.IT DIFFERS IN THE PROCESS THEY FOLLOW"




I am hustling monk.

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